Celine Dion's marriage hasn't
always been perfect, but the famed crooner is revealing the trick to her
heart going on and it isn't complicated: It's communication.
The
Grammy winner and her husband/ manager, Rene Angelil, have one of
Hollywood's most enduring, and perhaps most unlikely, love stories.
After meeting when Dion was only 12 and Angelil was 38, they went on
their first date seven years later, and have now been married just shy
of two decades. Their relationship has endured despite the pressures of
working together, being in the spotlight, a massive age difference, and
struggling to conceive. (Through in-vitro fertilization, the couple now
has three healthy sons.)
In some ways, what's more surprising than
the fact that their partnership is still going strong is the reason
that's the case. Apparently one of Dion's close girlfriends is to thank.
In an interview with
Vegas Deluxe, the songstress admits that it wasn't always smooth sailing for the high-flying pair.
"Rene
and I had our tough times. It wasn't always easy. We had tension
between us. It's never easy being husband and wife, but add to that we
are in business together, dealing with all the added pressures of shows,
concerts, tours, traveling. It was hard — a lot of hard work," she
explains before adding, "Up until seven years ago, we weren't
communicating properly."
Perhaps it was their lack of
communication (at least in part) that spurred the star to take a break
from the limelight and focus on her older and somewhat ailing husband.
In January 2000—six years before Dion claims they fixed their
problems—the couple
renewed their vows
in a lavish ceremony at Caesar's Palace Casino and Hotel. At the time,
Dion's spokesperson claimed it was "a way to mark the start of her time
out."
Dion blames that lack of communication
largely on her own habit of ignoring the issues at hand … until she
finally turned to a friend for advice. So what did this (seemingly very
wise) friend say?
For starters, she told the star that brushing it
under the rug and hoping it would go away simply wouldn't work. To
solve an issue, you have to talk about it.
"A very good girlfriend
talked to me about the real meaning of communication, the right way to
communicate and really properly communicate on an equal and respectful
level," the mother of three reveals. "[It] changed the way we related to
each other. My husband is also my best friend. We trust each other with
our lives. We live for each other."
And even if actions speak
louder than words, she's telling the truth. The couple has since been
remarkably romantic, jetting away to celebrate anniversaries and making
time with their boys a priority. Just 18 months ago, the entire family
celebrated Celine and Rene's 17-year anniversary with a family ski trip
in Utah. "The twins play in the snow, we will make snowmen and
Rene-Charles will learn to ski. It will be phenomenal!" the singer
gushed to the
Las Vegas Sun.
Sounds like a pretty good situation to us.
Now
that she has found the secret to a happy marriage, the Las Vegas
headliner only wishes more people had discovered it as well.
"It's
sad that so many people break up, their loving relationships end and
divorce happens when, if there was proper communication, they would be
able to hold on to the beauty of their early years together," she
laments, but ends on a positive note. "We made it through, so everybody
else can, too."
And she's probably right — if she can get her mystery friend to start making house calls, that is.
Celine is one of several musicians who live on an island. Can you name them all?
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